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*larabellxx
writes:Been seeing this guy for a couple of months and uses “we” alot and even said the other day “ we make a good couple dont we?” Would you take this as him hinting or assuming we official? Or do you think I should wait for him to ask directly? I know I could bring it up and just ask but would much rather he done it. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2019): Based on what he said, I think that he wants to be office, but never make assumptions, especially on such important matters as Love, Trust, and Fidelity! You could say something like: we Do make a good couple! Do you think that we should Official? Because if you would ask me to be yours alone, I would definately say Yes, we are Officially Exclusive! That way, he will be asking, you will not have to wait around until he builds up courage to ask, and there will be no reason to try to make assumptions! Wow! Young Love is so wonderful! Your post reminds me of years ago, and the awesome feelings of reciprocated new Love! I pray that all goes well, for both you and he, and that you are a happy and loyal couple for years upon years! Remember to live by this motto: Semper Fi. It means Always Faithful! Xx
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (28 November 2019):
 It seems official, but assuming is a bad idea. He may never ask. Be mature and ask - he may even be relieved you stepped up to it :)
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reader, N91 +, writes (28 November 2019):
 Sounds like it.
If you want to be then why not just ask?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2019): Are you actually 26-29? This seems very juvenile. I think it *sounds* like he assumes you're a couple but if you're not sure why don't you just ask?
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