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writes:Ok so here it is, it confusing. I was asked out last week So i said yes because i was on the rebound, not really liking this guy. So that boyfrined went on holiday. Then this guy i fancied asked me out, i said yes. Now going out with two people. Then i went round my ex's house, we kissed and fooled around. But he was completly aware that i was going out with two people. Then one of my boyfriends mates started flirting with, and i didnt exactly stop it, in fact...i carried it on. So does anybody fancy helping me out with my messy love life. Thanks Xxx
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (9 August 2007):
 You need help. So why don't you start helping YOURSELF.Tell people where you and they stand. If you are with a guy then for christ sake, be loyal. Be with one guy at a time, because otherwise you are seriously endangering how other people (and therefore; other guys) think about you (as elle87 said). Example; you've come on here and you've already shown yourself up to be distrustful, and that you really aren't sure what you want.SORT IT OUT!!It's very simple. Choose one of the guys. Don't see the 2/however many guys anymore if you can avoid it and certainly don't make out with them. Lastly, if anybody tries to flirt with you, tell them where you stand! Tell them that you have a boyfriend, and ensure nothing more happens between you and whoever is flirting.That's my advice. Not being arrogant, but I don't think anybody can really argue against it, so my further advice would be; listen and take in everything that I've told you, and everything else other people will add to what I've said.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007): your a player, and its not nice. Seems to me you like the attention and love all the fancy all the boys your with. Sort it out otherwise you are going to get a name with the boys.
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