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writes:So my ex and I broke up a little over a month ago. He said that he just didn't have "time." But stil liked me..even said he "loved" me as a gf but didn't want a relationship. Of course I was hurt but we agreed to be friends. We continued texting for about a week until all of a sudden he started to ignoring my texts almost completely. Ay school he would still come up and say a few words or playfully poke me in the side or something but this is slowly decreasing too. He had contacted me by sending a text the other night saying that he felt bad cause it seemed like I hardly talked or looked at him at when we were around each other at school. Iv also heard that he's been asking some of our mutual friends about how iv been doing and had told one of my friends today that he is worried about me cause iv seemed stressed with school. Idk what is going through his head and I need better help understanding what hes wanting...or why he's acting like this.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 December 2012):
 He is tryng to be nice and "stay friends " because it sounds like the PC thing to do when the break up was not acrimonious, and maybe because he feels a little guilty , since he knows nobody likes to be dumped and he can imagine you aren't particularly thrilled.
If ,though, staying friends right now does not work for you and is in fact preventing you from moving on, - don't feel bad and limit the contacts to what's best for you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 December 2012):
 He doesn't want a relationship but he doesn't want to end the friendship because he like many young folks sees this as a failure.
He may still care for you but if he says he does not want a relationship BELIEVE him and don't try to see feelings in his actions.
accept his actions at face value.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (20 December 2012):
He's a guy in high school. His attention span is less than a commercial break. He's moved on to something else, just the way it is at that age.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (20 December 2012):
 It sounds like he cares but isn't really ready for a relationship, or might be confused about what he really wants...
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