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writes:Hi , I am married for seond time from my first love after 26 years I was pregnant in the first year but I lost the baby ater 7 months. he could help me to carry on this I am missing to be mum and I could not be now because I am 46 years old ,I love my husbond he from Canada living with me in Iraq , and I am working in Iraq he is not ,in this morning after one year and 3 months telling me HE think that he is getting boring from our relation , I tried to find a job and in the end , the answer is I can't do that I working hard to let this relation gos up but he is not helping me , he say I love you but I am bored from this , what he is meaning of this do I am wrong , I love him so much Can you help me , dose I am the problem in this or what
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 I think you need to have marriage guidance if you can get it. You both have love for eachother but there is a lot of misunderstanding. This can happen when couples do not communicate and get their issues into the open.
You lost a child and remain childless and this can have a huge effect on a relationship, even if you both accept that now it will never happen...and the whole living between two countries will always cause stress.
I also know that relationships can become stale in later years so it's important to talk to him and try to remember the things you love about each other. If he is a good man and you are a good woman and you love eachother...I think it's worth fighting for.
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