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30-35,
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writes:How do I move on?I just got out of a 3 plus years of realtionship and i need to find a way to get over him... It got messy towards the end and I found out he was cheating...I need a way to get on with my life but i am really struggling with what to do... All my friends are at uni, where i would be if my course hadnt been messed up and i have no one else around where I live...I feel lost and I dont have any particular hobbies that can get me out meeting people and I just need to find a way to combat the grief and loneliness...Help!
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reader, Weramazing +, writes (8 March 2010):
 Hi,
firstly I think you should have a think about what you would like to do. Do you want to go back to study? If so what course interests you or do you want to get a new job in something? As you are young and single you have so many fun exciting opportunities available to you would you like to travel with other young people doing voluntary schemes or work abroad? Have a think about what you would like to do with yourself. Also why don't you join a local sports group kick boxing or yoga or something physical as these can be stress busters, keep you trim, keep you occupied and a way to meet new people.
As for your ex be grateful you are no longer with him and be thankful for all the good things in your life. I know it must be tough you were together for 3 years and that crap hurts but life goes on and you have to
move on with it. Start making plans for yourself give yourself things to look forward to and make new goals for yourself that you want to achieve. Put yourself first and focus on what you want from life. Keep busy and meet new people. Good luck.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (7 March 2010):
 From a guys point of view, I had the same with an ex-girlfriend.
I found she was cheating on me after 3.5 years. I done my goodbyes and took a holiday just on my own, spent 2 weeks me time got drunk a couple of nights (not recommended).
Never dated for a year after that.
Now in a relationship with a wonderful woman who appreciates me and loves me very much as I do for her.
You will forget it over time and just remember there is someone out there for you. Hope it works out.
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