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*ustangman92
writes:Ok here it is I'm 17 and I have been dating this girl for about 3 months. At the beginning she was dating this other guy who beat her and actually raped her. She didn't file charges on him because she feels sorry for him I told her she should have but she didn't. Any way after 2 weeks she said she was stressed out and she need a break but she went back out with him after breaking up with me... She ignored me for 4 days but then started talking to me and wanted to go back out with me and told me she made the wrong choice. So I did and 3 months later here we are.. We hang out at-least 3-4 times a week for 5+ hours each time. I know she is clinging but I like it. The only thing is I'm starting to trust her again we haven't seen each other for 3 days and she has been violently attacking me on the phone for misunderstandings. She things I'm accusing her of stuff.. She wants to be with her best friend and she was just there and she kind of just blow me off so she go over to her house again. Her friend lives in a trailer park... Which oh yea her ex lives at and plus there is 2 other guys there that she us to like but says she doesn't any more. I do know she is on her period but seriously I don't know.. She doesn't want to talk about plans that we made just 4 days in advance now. She knows that I love her and that every time she tells me it in her own words I get a twinkly in my eye. I have had to put up with a lot but we both come from insecure background relationships and she knows that but the past couple of days she wants to spend time with her friends and not talk as long but when I don't talk to her when I'm with my friend all hell breaks lose. I also noticed that she is kind of giving up I like to mess around and argue and she knows that but she told me she doesn't any more and just to believe what ever I want but she knows the truth.... I want to make this work but I need help I'm willing to do what ever it takes because she makes me real happy and she is just the one for me...
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