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I need clarity here... is this just a phase?

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Question - (15 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 June 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi I really only need some advice at the moment but I need some clarity on this. Since a while ago everyone out of my friends and family has thought that I have really liked this girl. We've been best friends for a while but has a boyfriend. People were thinking she might dump him to be with me and so on. The thing is i am really not in a situation to go out with anyone at the moment. I'm very confused about my sexuality at the moment as i like girl i mean i've only ever been with girls it's just at the moment all i watch is gay porn and I keep imagining myself with another guy its all i can think about and suddenly girls are a real turn off. Is this just a phase? It doesn't seem like it cus all I want to do is be with men. I know i shouldn't be too quick to label myself as anything but at this point I really could use some clarification, before I do something I might regret. What do you think?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009):

It's really annoying how people can never understand that a man and a woman can be friends without there being anything in it. Maybe if you are close enough you could confide in the girl, but you would need to tread carefully if she is interested in you.

Maybe you could go on some gay chatlines or sites and talk to others who are wondering about their sexuality. It might help.

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