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writes:Hi, I have been reading past advice on this website on dealing with dating an Italian man. Thank you. I sure could use some more support and advice. I haven't seen him in 30 days and I'm trying to stay away from him. We have been dating for sixteen months and have known each since we were twelve. he is gorgeous, my ideal perfect dream as far as looks and sex. he is amazing and so sweet ,but out of no where he turns viciously mean and extremely jealous. He is a control freak..a true Dr Jeckle and Mr hide. I recommend running if you meet one. I am trying so hard to stay away from him and obviously I love this man. I am strong and independant and won't take his crap..so much stress over the last year...I just need support from anyone who can relate to my situation..i can't believe I got n this situation..Thank you!
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reader, Eyespy17 +, writes (28 January 2013):
If you've already gone 30 days - keep up the no contact! Delete his # from your phone - don't answer or text back. I have dated Italian men from Italy and I know exactly what you are talking about. In general, the ones I dated fed off drama and "passion" and if someone is not upset, jealous or angry, they equate it with not being in love.
Best solution : don't engage him and he'll know the "love" is gone when he can no longer push your buttons and get a response.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (28 January 2013):
 A guy like him needs constant narcissistic supply. Stop feeding him that until he's telling you you are too withdrawn and he needs to protect his heart by investing less in the relationship or anything like that blah blah. An effective way to buzz off a narcissistic guy is to minimize his importance he has on you. Even your stress to him feels like love. You either don't pick up his calls or if he meets you face to face, be very boring, cold and uninterested even when he gets very passionate.
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