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36-40,
anonymous
writes:ok need advice b4 saturday night am going on a work night out and the women whos going in frank i fancy the pants off her she 24 and am 19 (her x bf was 19 to so i dont think age will be massive issue and i am mature for my age)i wanna no if theres anything i can do to c if she is interested in me cause if it turns out she doesnt like me am screw cause all have to face her every day plus i like talking to her and plainly asking hervout migh spolit she is the best part of my day some people have said she talks about me and we do flirt every morning i eel i have a chnace and every night i dont but come on she drives a honda civic i drive a for feista and pluss she is totally out of my leuge and my confidenc is really low as me and my egf split up so i dont no how to ask her out some people have said i stand a chance but ave never been one to lisent to friends when they say this girl likes u as somtimes theyve been wrong plz i need the advice wat do i do
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reader, Ronaldo +, writes (8 July 2008):
Hi mate.Your situation sounds very similiar to one I found myself in about a year ago. Looking back I now know the mistakes I made then, so my advice would be to do...nothing, at least for the time being. You work with this woman so firstly ask yourself is it wise to get involved with a colleague? I did and it's taken a long time for us to get back on speaking terms. The atmosphere was terrible at times and it affected my colleagues too. It's easy to get wrapped up in a situation and it's only when you step away from it can you see the potential pitfalls.Secondly, don't be quick to tell her how much you like her. A party can be the best and worst place to make a move on someone. Don't hang yourself out to dry, play it cool. Let her make the moves if she wants but remember to protect yourself first.
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