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36-40,
*unshinevicky
writes:I am 23 years old, and just feel like I am never going to meet a eligible man. I have had boyfriends in the past, the last one ending quite dramatically. But since that, I haven't even meet a man that I would consider getting involved with. I am have a ton of friends, I go out a lot, generally quite confident and am normally the life and soul of the party. I am educated with a university degree, currently doing a master's, so it's not like am not stupid. I meet loads of men, and some show interest in me, but none of them seem to match up to what I want. Maybe it is horrible to say, but they all seem quite dull and boring, and interacting between me and these men, seem forced and fake, not natural. And to me that's the most important thing is wherever or not you can be naturally yourself with someone, or else what is that point. I see all my friends in couple, and wish I also had someone to share things with. Although I don't just want to settle for anyone just for the sake of being with someone. What am I doing wrong? Am I looking in the wrong places, or am I just doomed to be a old women with loads of cats?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): Stop putting a front. You say you find these men to be boring and dull, so just be yourself and you'll find a guy who appreciates you for you! It could also be that some of these men are threatened by the fact that you're well educated and intelligent...overall, just look for a guy who has common interests and who is interested in you, not your money, or your clothes, but you as an individual person
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