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writes:I have been with a guy on and off for the past two years. I was a sophmore in highschool when he left to go to school in California and I lived in New Jersey. We talked for the next two years without going out and I visited him in Cali twice. DUring the time I was in HS and he was in College he would tell me how much he wanted me to come to school in Cali. I didn't think it was a good idea but he convinced me he really wanted me there. I decided to go to school with him, hoping we would go back to being a great couple, but things totally changed when I got there. He was being such a jerk and I felt like he never wanted to see me. I've been here for 2 months now and I feel like all we do is fight. I don't know what to do, I've talked to him about how I feel at least three times a week and we always fight. I feel like I need to get away and transfer but I feel like i'm basing my entire life around him. Please Help. Reply to this Question
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reader, sexi  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Hi
If you stay where you are do you have to see him? Are you guys staying together? If you can avoid him then maybe you should stay where you are and just avoid coming in contact with him.You cant keep runing because if this guy. You have made a decision to move try and build your life up there. Hope everything works out for you.
PS Is there any rason why he has changed like this?
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, tux +, writes (6 November 2007):
 You need to decide if it's worth the fighting to stay together. If you are only fighting, then there's not much there. It's bad you moved out to California to find this out, but it's the way life works out sometimes. You can try to make things work, or you could transfer back to New Jersey, or you could make the best of things and hang out in California for awhile(it's not that bad of a place). But well you just need to decide what you want from this relationship and decide if its worth fighting for.
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