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*x-Ellie-xX
writes:hey what would you rather.. a lovely lad/ girl who is so nice but ya arnt attracted to... or a lad/girl you Really like but not as nice..? iv gotten with this lad i really like but broke up with him because he wasnt trying, but now he asking me back out and i still like him and would like to. he says he will try harder...but my friends say not to!they dont think he will be any different..they dont really like him!! but theres this other lad who says he likes me nd he is soooooooooo nice to me i'm really myself arond him..but im not sure if i like him in that way! help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): You'll pick the guy who's harder to get, but the truth is that half the reason you're so attracted to him is just BECAUSE he's so much harder to get. He seems like more of an "achievment" just because he's not easy for you.
Just dont' cry & complain when the nastier guy treats you badly. You're saying yourself that this is how he is from the start. So if you pursue him anyway then you are deciding that it's worth his nastiness to be with him. Don't act hurt when he doesn't suddenly change his whole personality and start being nasty to everyone except you.
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reader, macmichael  +, writes (6 November 2007):
i think your young and youve already made up your mind the confident guy will win trust me. post back when youve picked him.
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