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writes: I recently moved out of my boyfriend of 4 years' house, at his request. We are finally starting to get together again more, but he still won't let me move back in. What can I do to move things up a little bit? We are not broke up, we are still together, but he thinks that we should not live together right now. This has happened before, and it usually only lasts a month, but it has been a month now. Any help would be great.
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reader, MonaLiza +, writes (4 September 2005):
My first reaction after reading your letter is to tell you to be patient. He has issues that he first has to work out. He asked you to move out of his house and even though the two of you didn't break up, still doesn't change the fact that he doesn't want you in his space right now. This won't be easy for you but if I can give you some good advice I would tell you to forget about this guy and move on. You say this happened before and I am sure that this won't be the last time. It may very well happen over and over and are you willing to live the rest of your life like this ! If you can't do that and you think the relationship is worth saving then the two of you should really talk this out. Did he give you any reasons why he can't live with you now ? You didn't really give enough information about why he keeps asking you to move out. Does this usually happen after a argument or is there some other things troubling him ?
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reader, Delila +, writes (4 September 2005):
You want to live together again, it seems like your boyfriend is the one who calls the shots. You are in a real hurry to get things moving. It seems like your boyfriend is a really mature independant guy! Where do you live while you are waiting for him to ask you to move back in with him. This time maybe you could start thinking about getting a place of your own and getting independant. You might actually enjoy it.
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