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writes:Well im not sure if this question really applys to this site,but i kinda need a bit of help,my sister just moved to b.c around last christmas,she is coming down for a vist, but i dont know what to do, i miss her so muchi love her she was like my therapist,because i dont have her here anymore,im a wreck. i really dont know what im supposed to do, because she is so much older then me i go to her for everything relationship problems everything,im going to be going back out to b.c with her for a while during the summer, but im afraid of how im going to react when i have to leave, what shouldi do to keep myself calm?how should i even deal with this all?cause personally it makes me cry everytime i see a picture, hear her voice, or even talk to her, she wants me to move out there when i graduate also, but i dont think i can leave,help me deal with this!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): damn i miss my sister also....she passed away in april 2010....miss her so much :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): I can feel for you my siter left 7 years ago not seen her in person sense i miss her all time i cry alot been so long so it does never go away she was like my mum she took my nephew also makes it even more hard i want to go see her but its really expensive i suffer from mental illness so idk what going up will do to me i would leave everyone here to move down there but i don't know how i'm sorry its happend to you too but this might sound horrible but if your as close as i am to my sister you never get over it :(
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reader, SofiaRose  +, writes (2 August 2010):
Trust me, I know exactly what you feel like. My big sister lives an hour away and I miss her so much. She is only my half sister which means I can only see her at my dads, and we often don't go on the same weekend.
The thing you have to remember is that where she is she's happy. I know that's what helps me to smile when I think of my sister, she deserves so much happiness and I'm glad that she gets it.
Things do get easier, as long as you don't lose touch and let her know you love her.
She misses you too, don't dwell on leaving her, just concentrate on being with her and having the best time in the world.
Good luck sweetie :)
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (15 June 2009):
 Hi, my dear...
My heart breaks for you. I've been the older sister who left my baby sister to move across the country. And it was so hard!! Not only for her, but for me! We are super close (and 8 years apart). I missed her all the time, and we talked on the phone lots and lots. But, there were nice things about it - we didn't drive each other bananas like we did when we were living together (not all the time, but in a sisterly "naooommiii get out of the bathroom!!!!!!!" way), and she was able to open up to me a lot more over the phone. And, she became a little more independent, which I suspect will be the same for you.
She misses you too. But, remember that she's your big sister and she loves you to bits and pieces. She always will. And she'll always be there for you. On the phone, through e-mail, Skype, AIM... and, this is something your sister wants to do. Be happy for her! :o) Even though it's hard. Visiting her will be a blast, and separating will be hard at the end, but don't even cross that bridge until you come to it. It'll just make the time you have together a real bummer if you're focused on having to leave at the end. Have a blast! It will be the best 'girls' vacation ever.
You're not graduating for a couple of years yet, so don't worry about that stuff. Maybe you'll move there, maybe she'll get sick of B C and move back, or maybe you'll be a lot happier and find your own place to go and do your own thing. Just remember: bottom line? Your sister loves you to death and distance can't change that. And, she can still help you with all of your problems (and, so can Dear Cupid when your sister isn't available!). She's not completely gone!!
Good luck, sweetness. She adores you and misses you too. Cut out some "sister time" - every Tuesday at 8:00pm, you have a hot date to talk. Things will feel better soon!!
Love, Honorary Big Sister - TasteofIndia
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