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*enny Junkie
writes:I have a big proble with my boyfriend. He's 20 and he acts like hes 42. I'm 18 and I act 17. I love to be wild and crazy and fun is always on the top of my list. him on the other hand he acts like my dad. its embarrasing. We've been goin out 15 months and on our 13 months I cheated on him because I cant stand to be around "my dad." i wanted to see if there was someone else out there perfect for me. He found out but still stayed with me. I love my boyfriend but I dont like him. We used to be the same but now we're two totally different people. I'm scared to leave him but I want to. But I could never see him with another girl. I'm not happy in the relationship. he always calls me names and says what I can and cant do. I cant hang with my friends or even family by myself. he's never lovey dovey with me or kisses me unless I do it first. He always wants sex and if I dont give it to him he gets kinda mad. he never showers. he smells and I'm emberrased to bring him around my family. I start alot of fights with him but so does he. And anytime I try to leave him he trys and kills himself...What should I do Please I'm begging you. Help Me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): I'm in the same boat my boyfriend treats me like crap he has a crappy job no car for two years and he tells me what I can and can't do. It got so bad I moved out already but something won't allow me to let go! I thik it has to do with the fact I do love him and I won't be able to handle him with someone else. But really I should think of it this way...no matter who he is with yes she will be able to see his sweet side but don't worry she will get all the bullshit too!!
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reader, Jenny Junkie +, writes (10 September 2009):
Jenny Junkie is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ya but everytime I try and end it he trys and kills himself... Its so hard... I would have to live with that for the rest of my life if something like that happened..
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reader, oBaLLiNo +, writes (10 September 2009):
well first you dont have the right to cheat on a guy becuz hes not doing what u like to do. tell him straight some part of the reason after the 13 months is bc u hurt him and he may hide it but theres no way he will forget that about you.now im not saying that he cant love u the same way he can but its just going to take more time. and if u love him or think you love him give him a chance. and if he doesnt hes probly losing something very special to him and he will realize it when he loses you.
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reader, bluedavid +, writes (10 September 2009):
sounds like there's not a future, dont be worried about breaking up with him, because you know both you and him will land on your feet. life is all about new beginnings.
it is the trouble that never comes that causes the loss of sleep. END IT!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): Read what you wrote. Imagine that someone else wrote it, and how you'd reply to them. I don't think you need any more advice than that.
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