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writes: I want my ex back!Hi there. I have a serious problem. I recently came out of a failed relationship with a much younger girl (16 and I am 23)and now I've realized that I still love my ex of 2 years back. I think this is why this relationship with the younger girl didn't work out.This ex of mine of 2 years back, don't want to greet me since we broke up 2 years ago. She also doesn't want to look at me. If she sees a relative of mine in town, she gets red in the face and just looks down to the ground when she walks past them. She is engaged now. I don't know what I must do. I still love her (she is now 21). I don't want to be unhappy for the rest of my life. I really love her. Our relationship lasted for 2 1/2 years. I really love her! Please help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2006): Hello Sharkie,
You should definitely tell her how you feel. I had to break up with my boyfriend of 2 years this weekend for his own good. He needs his space but couldn't admit it to me so I had to do it for him. He is younger than me (he's 22) and has a lot of growing up to do. But I still love him with all my heart and soul, and would definitely consider taking him back if he ever asked me back in the future. You sound very mature and you know what you want. If you don't contact her you will never know whether she feels the same. She obviously feels something why she can't look at you or your family in the Street. You just need the opportunity to find out exactly what it is she is feeling. Lots of people I know and that I have spoken to recently say they have regretted splitting up with their ex. I am one of those people but I am hoping time will make everything alright. If it turns out that it will not work between you both, at least you know the truth and that will be the first step in helping you to move on. See if you can write her a letter if you are unable to speak to her face to face. Then give her some time to get back to you. At least you will know you have tried. Good luck, take care xx
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (14 April 2006):
 Hey Sharkie,
Just tell this girl how you feel. Maybe the realtionship didn't work out the way you wanted in the first place because she didn't know you truly loved her. If she rejects you telling her how youfeel just show her what a loving a supportive guy you are and offer to help her be happy by helping with the wedding. Ask her if you can help with her wedding. Tell her you want her to be happy, even if that means you have to let her go.
All The Best and E-mail Me back with the result!
Phoebe xxx
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (10 April 2006):
 obviously the break up was hard on your ex as she doesnt see you. she's now engaged so she must be happy with her relationship. you may not want to be unhappy for the rest of your life but would you want to ruin the happiness she has now so that you could be happy.
i know you love her but when you love someone you sometimes have to make sacrifices, you may have to sacrifice you happiness for hers. You may just have to leave her to be happy and move on without you.
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