A
female
age
26-29,
*alliebug
writes:I don't find myself attractive. I think I'm fat and ugly. My ldr bf used to call me beautiful all the time... But now were not together anymore, and I still love him, but am trying to move on. And there's this other boy who lives in another town thtat thinks I'm pretty and amazing, but he has a gf and doesn't do ldr. But theyre the only ones, and I don't know whether the guys at my school think I'm ugly or unapproachable or something, but it doesn't seem like there's one out there that likes me at all... I guess I need someone to compliment me, and when there's nobody there to tell me they love me or that I'm pretty I feel hurt.... My family tells me I'm pretty, but I always feel like they're just saying that, because I go to school and I see boys go up to girls all the time and flirt with them, and I see couples all over the place, kissing and hugging and making googly eyes at each other, and I can't help but feel jealous... I'm not old enough to date according to my parents, and I don't know if I'm ready to have another boyfriend after my last one... But, oh idk, maybe I just miss hearing someone say I'm beautiful :( idk what to do
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reader, belize  +, writes (8 May 2011):
 Don't worry so much you are still growing. Listen to your family, because they are the most important your life. When we are teenagers we do tend to worry a lot. Be kind to yourself. Important thing is to love yourself first. When love yourself beauty and confidence will shine through. Don't loose any sleep over him. Pay more attention to your school work and widen your circle of friends. Take no notice of who is making out with who, that's not so important right now. Be happy and care free. You are only young once! You will never get it back again... So embrace it and give your self a tight hug, cause you're beautiful.
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