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writes:Dera AA, I met a lovely girl on a dating site a few months ago. I have since learned that she seems to keep in touch with a number of previous boyfriends and had a date with another person from our dating site. we discussed this and I thought we had resolved this. however she was recently phoned by a previous boyfriend and agreed to meet him for a coffee. I thought I had made my views clear and am not sure what to do! Reply to this Question
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 You say you met her a few months ago but you don't say how long you've been exclusively dating her. If you both had an agreement that neither of you were going to date other people or continue on the dating site, then she has broken her agreement with you. On the other hand, if you don't have such an agreement, then she has every right to do as she pleases and you either accept it or move on.
It sounds like she wants play the field and you want to settle down. If you can't agree on the direction of the relationship, you need to find someone who has similar desires as you.
Good luck.
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 This girl obviously wants to keep her options open. If you have told her your feelings on this and she still meets other people then I think you are wasting your time. Maybe you are more serious about the relationship than she is. Also she may not like restricting herself to one man and by you telling her you dont like may make her more determined. How would she feel if you were in touch with other women? Maybe it wouldnt bother her. I think you may be wasting your time here.
Good luck,
Aunty t.
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