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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for over 7 months now but I am now noticing he has some anger issues/over analyzes everything. I have tried talking to him but it still continues a little bit.For example, I had a bad day last Friday with work and family issues and I went to go see him in the evening and I wasnt as chipper as usual. So right away he thinks he did something to upset me, so he yells at me for being mad at him for nothing and ruining his evening. Meanwhile, it had nothing to do with him and I just had a rough day and he wouldnt listen to me.Also, last night we were driving home and a coyote ran across the road and he made some rude comments about how he doesnt care about it. So I had said "its people's attitudes like that that frustrate me" since I am an environmentalist getting my degree. He blew up at me calling me f**king annoying and yelled at me for thinking HE frustrates me (turning my words around). I can never win with this guy, I feel like I'm on my last straw. What do you suggest? I love him but I'm hurt. Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 March 2010):
 Your b/f has taken you for granted.If he continues on this course, you will have a rough passage through life.
Either he has to change his attitude towards you or you have to show him the exit.
It is sad when you hurt the one that loved you the most.
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reader, TORRES  +, writes (27 March 2010):
I seems from what you say that your BF has some anger issues and is proably not happy with himself, as anger towards others can be to do with not being happy in his own skin, although this may seem strange he may feel that you are the safest person to let this out on, and thats not good for you. Maybe just waiting until he is calm and expalainig that you are there for him, but that the way he is acting is making you feel and that although you want to support him that he needs to find a more positive ay to deal with his frustration.
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