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writes:I made a fake account and the guy that I really like started talking to her.. or me?. But now i don't know what to do because he's falling inlove with the fake girl that I made. I dont know why he likes the fake girl. The picture that I chose was an average looking girl wearing sunglasses. I need advice. What should I do? I don't want to tell him it's really me bacause he'll get really mad and he probably won't talk to me anymore if i told him the truth. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): You need to tell him the truth.Nothing is worse than being
lied to.Tell him the truth immediately and that you are so
sorry.He may not talk to you again,but that's your mistake
and would be your consequence.So tell him the truth.He may be mad,but he will appreciate it.I hope I helped you in some way.
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reader, Aunty Em +, writes (1 September 2008):
 "Tellulah" is exactly right. This was a learning curve you, that actually has come back to bite you on the bum.I agree with "G" when said that people find it a lot more comfortable to be hidden by a disguise. But just think, there are LOTS of people on the internet using false identities - usually featured in the news that turn out to be peadophiles and creeps etc. Although I am very sure you are not one, you are using the same sneaky technique!The best thing to do is say a quick goodbye and delete the account, as it is very unfair to let this person go on thinking they are in love with someone real.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (1 September 2008):
 Hi,
Take it s a learning curve and dont do it again. Thats the trouble with lie's they tend to jump up and bite you on the arse.
If I were you I would let it all fade away. Dont answer from her to him any more, he will soon forget her, and you wont have lost face.
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reader, SexiKitten  +, writes (1 September 2008):
 I did the same thing, my escape was she reckons we should go out or she met some dude.
Something like a quick answer will do the trick.
Worked for me.... and learnt my lesson
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reader, epifanatical +, writes (1 September 2008):
 im wondering how old you are?.. this sounds really childish.. and im trying to guess why you felt you needed to do this??. could it be perhaps you wanted to find out what the guy is like around others?.. like what would he be like around other girls??.. hmm interesting experiment but one doomed to fail esp if he finds out..
i think the best thing to do is not tell him and just close the fake account.. he'll get over it im sure.. and you can get to play nurse and heal his broken heart !! perhaps that would make him fall in love with you instead.. best of luck sweetee !! :)
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