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writes:Ok..I did something to make my boyfriend mad...I couldn't get a hold of him so I went to his work and he wasn't working, he was there hanging with friends and he was more or less blowing me off, telling me he didn't want to be bothered, kept wanting me to leave, then he ended up leaving...ok he's mad cause I wouldn't leave but he won't talk to me, answer his phone, reply to text messages, e-mails, he is being very distant...I haven't really talked to him or seen him in almost a week...and when he did reply to a text once he said just give him some time, he has to figure some things out, he does love me but he's going away for awhile and he's mad at me. I asked where he's going and his reply was "on a journey to better myself" He hasn't broken up with me but when I asked if he wanted me to leave him his reply was "go ahead but don't fall in love, I'll be back." I ask if he has met someone else, if we are even together, if he wants me to break up with him and I get no reply....we both have myspace accounts and he looks at my profile everyday and his status still says "in a relationship" and I am still in the #1 spot......he has never acted like this before and it's like he is a different person...I don't know what to think. Do you think he has met someonelse or his he just playing games with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007): it's me again, he actually called me today, a little while after I wrote this....he didn't meet someone, he is just super mad at me...told me he'd call me later and hasn't, so now what? I think it hurts worse that he is being extremely immature and playing games and hasn't met someone else...I could have taken that kind of rejecton better...cause at least he would have had a real reason for his actions...you know? How should I handle this
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (19 June 2007):
I think he is being mean stringing you along, you really need to ask him again if he is seeing someone else. You going to get hurt so just send him a text saying hes dumped.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (19 June 2007):
 If he is playing games with your it's a very cruel game to be playing as he has just left you dangling, if he wants to go on a journey to better himself then thats up to him but he has no right to say to you don't fall in love as i will be back.
You need to tell him you are not prepared to be treated like this and you need to know exactly what the situation is and if he can't do that then you need to move on.
Don't let him call all the shots it's your life and you have the only say in what you want to do.
Take care.xx.
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