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writes:Help! This is a very strange question... And I feel strange asking it. I am interested in BDSM (male domination) and am in a really secure relationship with my boyfriend. I just don't know how to introduce a Dom/Sub relationship, since it all seems too late now we've been together for 2 years. The furthest I've got is some really light spanking, which my boyfriend seems to like. I need much more than this! I'm so embarrassed to talk about it. HELP! What should I do?! Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve +, writes (31 May 2007):
 You would be surprised just how many couples actually partake in a Dominant/submissive lifestyle. Wait until you are both sitting relaxed and tell him what you like sexually, ask him what he likes first then introduce it that way. There are many sites on the net that you can look at regarding this subject but not all of them are healthy. There is one site that I would highly recommend you have a look at, it's called Submissive Loving and shows you the "healthy" way to introduce this lifestyle.
Have a look at it first, then ask him to look at it with you. You never know, you might just spark his interest.
http://www.submissiveloving.com/
Eve
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reader, Yos  +, writes (30 May 2007):
 I suggest you send him a link to this article and see how he handles it. Ask him what he thinks about it after he has read it:
http://www.sub-dom.com/d-s-article.htm
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