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*ady_in_the_moon
writes: HELP PLZ! i dont know if this is a silly thing and that im making a big thing out of nothing...ive been in arealtionship with my bf,for 2years now. we both love each other alot. and we are planning to get married in 2years. the thing is that he used to tell me "I'm IN Love with You", i love u and things like that... but now he just sticks to i love u...(i mean that great, but i love to hear him say that he's still in love with me) it has been months since he told me that he is in love with me. and i have told him that. and i have asked him aren't u inlove with me anymore, he'll ask why, and i tell him cz u dont say it anymore... i told him more than a dozen times that i want to hear it. and he didn't. and many times after i noticed he stopped saying it, i'd tell him babe im in love with u... he'd say in our language, word translation, may god keep u with me... and he won't reply back, not even with me too... is it normal for a guy to feel that after 2 years, or am i right for making a thing out of it! plz help me!! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, lady_in_the_moon +, writes (26 September 2010):
lady_in_the_moon is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have told him that i need to hear him say that... i mean everynight i still wonder is he still in love with me... and i cry my tears out! i know its not a big thing, and everything else is good, but i just need to hear him say that...
i have said to him, when its a romantic talk that im in love with u, after a while he stopped saying it, to saying me too, to saying "he'd say in our language, word translation, may god keep u with me"...
i need to hear him say it, what should i do?!!!!
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (26 September 2010):
So did you actually tell him to say "I'm IN love with you" instead of "I love you"??
Cos if you didn't then its easy to see why he might be a bit confused...
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