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I feel like I've been played but I'm not sure?

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Question - (3 September 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm just a nice girl from New Jersey who came to West Virginia to make new friends and get away from the stereotype of NJ. I'm a really nice person I am honest though with people and I don't let people walk all over me too much. I'm really book smart but, I'm also street smart. Anyway, I came to WV and have had an awesome time but the only thing is that I have a guy problem. I'm used to back home guys being a certain way and I come here and this guy is so into me and I was a little distant because it was a little too strong and he knew. But, we had sex eventually and have only had sex twice but it seems I got played because he doesn't talk to me and when I left today to go back to the dinning hall before leaving with my roommate to go to NJ he ignored me completely. But, I know he saw me multiple times and he even checked out my butt. So I mean what's up with this? He's actually a really nice guy but I guess he really isn't? I'm so confused because I wish he was straight up like how I'm used too not so shady and rude.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (4 September 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntReally they don't have those typical males in NJ?

What this young man is a guy (and they have them all over the US) who sweet talked you, may even used a little pressure to get into your pants. Then after he gets what he wants (sex) you don't hear from him again. No phone calls, texts, and forget about him acknowledging you in the hallways. Unfortunately, you got used. But hey it happens to the best of us.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (3 September 2011):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntI guess your confusion results because you are book smart and street smart (as you've noted).... but you're not "geography smart".... That takes in to account that different people, in different places, may not fit in to one of those other "smarts."

Good luck.....

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