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writes: Ive been with my boyfriend for a year. I really thot he was the right one for me. His personality is xactly as i want, bt my issue is just his attractiveness. Hes grown his hair long n wont wear anything but black, his clothes sense is terrible and hes becoming overwieght. its reli putting me off, i dnt feel that attracted to him. ive spoken to him about it bt he wont do anything. he insists he loves me n im the right one for him.becoz of this im always lookn at other guys who i think r reli nice.theres this other guy who seems smiliar to my bf and is reli nice to me, hes got everything i want in a bf bt he has a gf. id also fancied this guy before i went out with my currnt bf, id just been afraid of asking him.it makes me feel reli guilty. i love my bf bt his looks is just reli bothring me im begining to feel embaressed. hes just perfect in every other way! what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, happylife +, writes (18 November 2006):
When it comes to relationships no one gets it all. You can either have the guy with all the looks or the guy with all the personality or a mixture of both. However, to find someone with all the looks and all the personality and the income and the beliefs, and the family you can live with and, etc ... is just not possible.
So the bottom line is that you will have to be willing to sacrifice at least one very important quality that you want in a man in order to get another very important quality that you want. In this case, you are finding yourself having to sacrifice the looks for the sake of personality. Some women would rather be in your shoes and give up their good looking A%& Whole that lies and cheats on them. There is also a woman out there who has a man with all the looks and the charm, who is also romantic and has the greatest personality but is too lazy to get a job and would be willing to trade him for your men.
Bottom line is that you will not be able to find it all. The only question that you have to answer to yourself is "What extremely important quality am I willing to sacrifice for the sake of being with someone".
Good luck,
Happylife
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reader, happylife +, writes (18 November 2006):
When it comes to relationships no one gets it all. You can either have the guy with all the looks or the guy with all the personality or a mixture of both. However, to find someone with all the looks and all the personality and the income and the beliefs, and the family you can live with and, etc ... is just not possible.
So the bottom line is that you will have to be willing to sacrifice at least one very important quality that you want in a man in order to get another very important quality that you want. In this case, you are finding yourself having to sacrifice the looks for the sake of personality. Some women would rather be in your shoes and give up their good looking A%& Whole that lies and cheats on them. There is also a woman out there who has a man with all the looks and the charm, who is also romantic and has the greatest personality but is too lazy to get a job and would be willing to trade him for your men.
Bottom line is that you will not be able to find it all. The only question that you have to answer to yourself is "What extremely important quality am I willing to sacrifice for the sake of being with someone".
Good luck,
Happylife
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