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30-35,
anonymous
writes:im a girl and sorta in a long distance relationship... but i think the only thing i want out of a man is sex what should i do? for sum reason i have a thing for one night stands which usually end up being 3 night stands cuz i will se the guy a week later...what can i do i love sex like its my passion...?anyone?Jess
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (14 February 2007):
 You're awfully young to consider sex one of your 'passions'! Whatever happened to music or clubbing?! Anyway, you're obviously way past all that so I'll just answer your question . . .
You obviously have problems getting close to someone. What has your family life been like? Have you had a close, loving family or not? Sometimes, people who have never been shown love have no idea how to show it themselves. Maybe sex is all you see men for because you've never had a good male role model in your life to learn from?
I really don't know why you keep doing this to yourself, you're worth more than this. Don't you want someone to love and trust and to make love to them, not just continue having one night stands. I think maybe talking to a professional who can come up with some ideas about why you feel the need to do this, whether it's insecurity or attention seeking or something deeper.
I really do feel for you but I think, as you grow up and you meet someone you really care about, things will change for you. Until then, stop letting people take advantage of you: they're using you more than you're using them. Find yourself a toy or something! If you won't do that, at least make sure you're protecting yourself in whatever you do.
Good luck
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