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I love my teacher, but what should I do about it?

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Question - (13 April 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

hey..

Im 15 years old and im in love with my teacher.. I dont know what to do ..because i have a boyfriend and hes engaged.. also he is moving to another school, and today was his last dday :( i know its stupid..because im 15 and hes 25...but i cant help it... and somtimes i think he likes me to.. becuase when i stare at him.. he always seems to be looking at me.. and when he talks to me he put his around me.. well i guess you get the poiint... im obsessed with him..will some one pleas help me..:(

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2006):

willywombat agony auntThis is a crush honey. Let it go, and try to put him out of your head when he leaves. You will get over it. I promise......

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (14 April 2006):

tux agony auntI agree with anon and Angelicc. you should find yourself moving on and realize he's only a crash. A) you have a bf and he's engaged..How do you feel about your bf? B) he is 25 and you are 15.. Yes 10 years is not that big of a difference in the end.. however when you are 15.. it's a bigger difference which your parents may have a problem with. And him being your teacher has nothing to do with the legality of the relationship. It's the sex issue which of course the laws in regards to that vary from place to place.. The ethics of the relationship though are what is being lifted by him moving to a different school.

But i would suggest keeping yourself busy.. hangout with your friends... have fun while you can.

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A female reader, Phoebe Halliwell United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2006):

Phoebe Halliwell agony auntDear Reader

If he's moving to another school this means he is no longer your teacher, correct? This means you can now leagally go out with him. Is this school far away? A ten year age gap is ok, I mean there are 9 years between my parents! This is a tricky one, there are two choices -

1) Just forget about him and find someone your own age

2) Carry this thing on.

i would go with option number one. Forget about him. Do as Angelicc says and have a girly night in!

Good health and happiness

Phoebe xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2006):

This is your teacher, most people have some sort of a crush on a teacher or a doctor of someone like that in their formative years, don't worry it'll pass. Just dote on your lovely boyfriend, and have fun (carefully and safely).

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A female reader, Angelicc United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2006):

Angelicc agony auntwell it sounds like a crush, he's leaviing tomorrow so that'll make it easier to get over him. i think you should grab a few friends, buy so ice cream, rent a few romantic movies (scary movies - so you can jump, comdey - so you can laugh or romantic - so you ca trash them), get a bunch of snacks and just have a real girly night in. thats what i would do.

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