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I love my teacher and need some advice

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Question - (29 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2009)
A female Germany age 30-35, *inaLovesMark writes:

Hey. So my name's Sina. I'm 17 (turning 18 in June) and I'm madly in love with my teacher... He's my English translating teacher (i'm on a school for foreign language assistants) and he's sooo cute! I think I fell in love with him when he walked into the room for the very first time. You must know he's older than I am. I'd guess him in his mid 40's.

Well, he said he's got 2 kids but never said anything about a wife and he doesn't wear a ring and he doesn't have any marks that rings leave. He's such an intelligent man and I love his smile and his voice and his scent... he smells so good you can't imagine. He's from Wales and it's so cute when he talks in German.

I often catch myself watching his lips or watching how his tongue touches the back of his teeth. I've never felt like this before. I just want to walk up to him and kiss him.

There are often little things he does, like holding the door for me or looking when he thinks I'm not lookin (it happens the other way around as well XD ) or asking about my well-being.

My friends have noticed how his voice changes when he greets me. They say it has a sexy undertone. I always try to see him whenever I'm in school and when I do I can't do anything but grin and say Hi... I could really kick myself at times...

Then there was that one time when we had to translate smth out loud and he switched on the overhead projector. He always looked at the sentences when the others translated but as soon as it was my turn he watched me translating. I just could feel myself blushing. And I know he must have seen it too.

I behave like an idiot as soon as he's in the room and one time we talked about I think it was past tense and he said smth like it doesn't matter who sleeps in the bed and I answered (it was actually meant for my friend's ears only) I don't let just anybody into my bed... as soon as I realized what I'd said I blushed again and he grinned at me.

I wanted to slap myself (again)... Or that one time after an exam, my 2 friends and I walked around the school and we were talking about our new teacher from the US and my friend decided to call her Miss America and then we somehow talked about HIM again and she said Mr. Wales and walked through the door into the stairwell and I walked after her and said Mr. World and BAM! He came walking down the stairs.

My friend let go of the door and it hit me in the arm. I actually wanted to slap HER for doing that to me but I was once again lost in his smile. My friends said that everytime we meet somewhere in school or anytwhere he only looks at me and says hi with that sexy voice and that cute smile... Sometimes I really think he knows. I behave like... I don't even know what I behave like...

Like I said before, I never felt like this. Ever. And it makes me really sad to know that I can't do anything about it...

I need some advice. What can I do? How can I find out about his thoughts/feelings about me) And don't go telling me it's a teenage crush, 'cause it's not. I've had a crush here and there and this is more.

Please! Some help! Thanks in advance.

- S

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A female reader, 150194 United Kingdom +, writes (23 June 2009):

hey :)

dont worry i know exactly what you're going through and how you feeling, im 15 almost 16, and totally in love with my science teacher. And he does that sexy voice thing to me aswell! But tbh, i think im just going to wait till i leave, and maybe say something then.

good luck :)

xx

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A female reader, MidnightSky United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2009):

MidnightSky agony aunthey there! wow, sounds like you have a great teacher. im not going to tell you you have a crush, because i believe that you don't....i don't either! :P i adore my guitar techer from the tips of his spiky hair to the bottom of his shoes rofl. my mate loves him too (altho i secrtely think i love him more lol :P) but im pretty sure he knows we like him, and were friends, which of course i would love to be more lol but alas he is married and i wouldnt do anything to ruin his career if it turns out he liked me too lol.

hmmm.....so it does seem like he likes you too? well, you are turning 18 soon yeah, and if he does like you too, when you leave school...maybe something could happen? i dont see why it couldnt if he does like you and your 18 and out of school, apart from the age gap people might be worried about if it got serious or something your doing nothing wrong. just don't act on it yet incase someone finds out, he might lose his career.

see how it goes, enjoy how you feel so far, and if something does come of it you go girl! :D x

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A female reader, Pandaholic123 United States +, writes (29 April 2009):

Pandaholic123 agony aunti'm going to tell you exactly what i think you don't want to hear: Everyone gets feelings for someone that they know it would be so wrong and daring to have romance with. Maybe you just think it would be exciting to be with an older man- a fantasy maybe? I think about being with an older man sometimes and it is sort of a turn on (my boyfriend is a few years older than myself). They know more about the ways, if you know what i'm sayin' lmao. I'm not saying that you don't have a "romance" thing goin' on. I'm just saying: he knows you like him so he will be trying to make you blush or make you nervous; Don't assume that he's flirting back or anything even if he might be, It's not wrong to like a teacher or anything like that at all!

Love shouldn't have rules! =)

I know i may sound unintelligent but i know what i'm saying. :)

side note: I speak german too ^_^ it's my 2nd language! =D

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