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writes:I have a GF, and my best friend who is a girl we shared a hug and there was this moment when i forgot my GF and being with my best friend seemed perfect. What should i do?, i love my GF but now i am constantly thinking about my best friend in a romantic way what should i do?
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reader, blazee  +, writes (25 July 2007):
 remember you might lose both.
think about it long and hard. was there a reason for you asking your girlfriend out? or was it a mistake, and the real person was always there just unnoticed?
think through your emotions about your best friend.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (25 July 2007):
 Simple...be a man and decide who you really want.Think about each of them and what it is you want from a relationship. Staying with your girlfriend when your thinking about someone else is unfair to her as it is preventing her from meeting someone who really is going to be truthful and faithful to her and love her completely. Having a relationship with your friend, may or may not turn out as you expected, either way, someone is going to be hurt and you could end up losing both of them.
Just be honest, be sensitive when letting your girlfriend go (don't make it out to be her fault, because it's not her fault) accept the guilt that is going to come from it and go for what you want the most.
Painful...but at least you won't be living a lie.
Aunty Em x
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