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writes: I have been dating this 18 year old for 5 days. In five days, she has already talked about marriage, children, and moving in together. I am 20 years old. She is still a virgin, but she is like a nymph in a virgin's body. What should I do about her moving so quick?
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reader, Martin +, writes (25 March 2005):
5 days is such a short time to even tell if you are compatible. Get to know each other as friends first, and you will both know if you should take it furthur.It seems though that she is after some security and can see it in you. She trusts you so you should feel highly honoured.Remember though, you both have a long time to live so don't rush life. Take it easy.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (22 March 2005):
 Suggest to her that she slows down a little, well, quite a lot actually!You are both very young but that isn't a reason not to commit to each other. What do you want? Do you like her? Perhaps she is so eager because she really does like you but you may need to urge her to not move so fast. If you like her, say so, but that you are content to see each other for a while and see how things go rather than rush into talking about marriage and children and the like. This could quite easily scare someone off! Do reassure her how you feel but that you wish to see how you both get on before you really think about the future.Remember also that if and when you do get intimate, this will be a big thing to her. Consider firstly what you really want before you get to that stage.Good luck.
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