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writes: My best friend is a gay man and hes an amazing friend and were really close. Only problem is im in love with him and i dont know what to do im crying inside all the time. please help me i cant tell him as itl ruin our friendship i just want it to go away.
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reader, raven1604 +, writes (5 August 2006):
Every person who falls in love with some one they cant have feels like that. you just have to ask your self do you love him enough to let him go and be happy as his close friend knowing he will always be there for you? or would you rather run the risk of it falling apart because of your attraction to him? its very hard i know and no one ever should tell you that is easy the only thing i can think of you doing is making a list of things that are good and bad of both situation for keeping it to your self and telling him the one that feels the most right to you is the action you must take. this might not help you at all but it helped me in the same situation and i still have a great friendship with him and im glad i never told him how i felt but only follow my advice if you feel that it is right for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2006): well if you feel as though telling him will at least give you some sort of closure and help you to move on, then i recommend it. because if he's really a true friend, he won't let it ruin the friendship. but if it won't help you at all, then i wouldn't consider it. but either way, you do need to move on, as hard as that is. because eventually, your feelings will fade, but you have to have the right mindset. you have to tell yourself that you can't have this man no matter what, and work to control your feelings. and eventually they will go away. good luck.
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