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anonymous
writes: dear cupid, my friend is havng problems with his girlfriend. The only time she will ever talk to him is when she wants money or wants a lift somewhere - and now she has gone on holiday abroad only telling my friend 6 hours before she went and it is a 18-30s holiday so obviously there will be sex and drinking. He has been with her for 3 years now and he feels he can't trust her... what should he do? please help because we are worried about him... he is nearly losing his job over the worry of her.
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reader, Allio121 +, writes (5 August 2006):
leave her! shes obviously not in the relationship for love and commitment more for money and.....money.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2006): drop her!! she sounds like a total bitch (excuse my language) if you ask me. after being with someone for three years, you would think she would have developed respect for him. apparently not. what kind of relationship is one where you don't talk unless you need something from them? or one where you don't have the common courtesy to tell them when you're going away for a period of time? that sounds miserable, if you ask me. anyway, she clearly sees him as someone she can use and abuse at her whim...and that's because he lets her. and that's his fault for putting up with it. your boy needs to put his foot down and stop giving in to her demands or break up with this girl. he needs to find someone who will respect him for all he has to offer - aside from his money.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2006): I regretfully must inform you that you should get your friend out of his "relationship" with this chic. She is a moocher and is no good for him. You said it yourself she only talks to him when she wants money or a ride. I seriously can't believe you have let your friend stay with this woman for 3 years. Tell your friend he needs to leave her and forget about her because no good will come of this "relationship".
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2006): Two words: leave her.
I mean geebus! Aside from the lack of common sense from both of you, which part of "she wants money or want a lift somewhere" don't you two find quite obvious in this 'relationship'?
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