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writes: have been with my boyfriend for just over two years and while we have had our ups and downs things are good between us. the problem is over the last month i have been chatting to another guy and have starting to get feeling for him too. i know before long im going to have to choose between them but dont know who i want more, my boyfriend who i really love or the new guy i like. need help to find a way which one to choose. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2006): look,you are having feelings everyone has youve been w/bf a while and now someone else is interested and it makes you feel good and thats cool but dont ruin a good thing over the fact that you like someone else.so hes nice to you so what if you love your man thenyou have your answer.say goodbye to your friend and love your man w/all of yourself not just a part of you.
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reader, Anja +, writes (30 May 2006):
 Neither! If you really loved your boyfriend you wouldn't be in the right mind emotionally to have feelings for someone else. Your b/f deserves better. Best to let your b/f down gently, but don't think you can run into the arms of this new bloke you met, he must know you have a b/f right? RIGHT? Maybe he's just after the thrill of an affair....it isn't funny and it isn't clever ...someone will get hurt whatever happens.
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