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anonymous
writes: heyme n my frends called up my bf n my friends flirted with him pretendin 2 b sum1 else. he flirted bak wid dem which really hurt me, dis isnt the 1st tym he has done this, also he watches a lot porn which really hurts me. i really love him. we bin 2geva 4 almost 3 years. plz dnt give me advice on leaving him thnks
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni am a religious girl and i have done so much 4 him that i didnt want to 2 just to keep him happy!
he just doesnt appriciate it
i fink he should also mend his ways if ive changed so much 4 him
but he uses the excuse that "he doesnt think before he does something" which really bugs me
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reader, anonymousme +, writes (3 May 2008):
Well first of all you need to tell him what you did and explain to him how you feel disrespected when he flirts with other girls and maybe you should try doing something with him that prevents him from watching porn like doing something super sexy so he doesn't have to watch porn hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionive asked him to stop a lot of times
he doesnt do it for like 6 months and den he goes off again
:(
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reader, WiccanWonder +, writes (3 May 2008):
Explain to him, that his habits i.e. flirting and watching porn are really upsetting you and you want him to stop. If he loves you then he will probably stop.
I hope this helps
Good luck
Tasha x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): well u oviously realy care about him and i think that if u did leave him then u would regret it cuz of how much u love him, altho from wat it sounds like i think u deserve better but i think u should defenaty talk to him about it cuz i mean all guys pritty much wach porn but as long as hes not cheating on u i dont think u should leav him over it. I do think it needs to be brout to his attention PRONTO cuz if u dont talk it over with him hows it ganna get solved cuz it is a problem so jjust tell him how u feel and if he cares enough then he cut down on it wish u the best of luck and i hope this helps
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