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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:im 14 and iv liked my ex boyfreind for 3 years non stop(wev been seeing eachother for 5 months). He broke up with me a coupl months ago and i thot it was the end of the world. We are now freinds with benifits.I would do anything to make him happy and he knows that. He takes advantege of the power he has over me and has already talked me into giving him oral sex. He said he wouldnt tell anyone but the next day when i went to school EVERYONE new. I still hang out with him and my freinds and family all say that he doesnt treat me the way he should and that im just his boody call. Sometimes i think so too, but then he tells me that im not and i belive him.Hes now asking me for sex and 1 part of me wants to but i know it probly wont work out in the long run wat should i do? should i keep liking himgive it a chance and hav sex with him or try to get over him and find someone new???
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reader, love diva  +, writes (4 July 2008):
i know that this is a lot delayed. but i just had to answer this and hope it is bot too late. you must understand something.... He clearly doesnt love you.. when a guy is in love, he is very proud to tell ppl that you an him are together, it is not about the sex. he has clearly showed off the fact that he has controll over you. you love him and i can undrstand the compulsion to do what makes him happy. but do you really want your first time to be with a guy who doesnt know your value??? you will never forget the first time... he will only consider it as a milestone he ran and won. but for girl it is memmory o hold on to.... wait for the right guy. it is never too late to know your own value.... start fresh. before he knows you value, you must know it your self.. If you understood what a beautiful person you are you would never let a guy like that harm you lke this. Be couragious and tell him it is all over. find it in your heart the wiil to be somebody confident and learn your self respect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): omg!! do not do that!!!!!!!you will soooo badly regret this when you are older and find the right guy!seriously he is not worht it from what he has done to you beforteplease please pleaseee do not be stupid!!!xxxx
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