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writes: Well me and my boyfriend been 2gether almost a year now.. And I really love him! He makes me happy and I couldnt picture me with anybody else but him. Well b4 me nd him got 2gether he had a baby by his ex, he even has her name tattoed on his arm! I mean I know there not 2gether anymore but when I see her name on his arm, it makes me kinda upset! I worry alot that he still loves her? I understand I need 2 just trust him, but its hard .. I love him so much nd wanna be with him 4evr, but im tired of crying! Helpp Meee Please!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 October 2011):
Sorry Can't read your post, I don't read netspeak/text speak.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 October 2011):
tattoos are forever or very expensive to remove. If it bothers you that much and you guys stay together maybe you could ask him later on if he could get it covered...
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reader, wiseoldman +, writes (9 October 2011):
DON'T go on at him too much or this might happen to you!!A sixtysomething female friend of mine is named 'Wanda' which is a rather unusual name in this day and age, but happened to be the name of her father's first girlfriend- and he had the tattoo to prove it. Apparently the woman he eventually married nagged him about his 'Wanda' tattoo so much (tattoo removal was difficult in the 1950s) that when they had a daughter he registered the names they'd chosen for her, but added 'Wanda' as her first name. That solved the problem, though his wife was a bit annoyed at first. And as far as he was concerned he simply had a tattoo consisting of his daughter's name inside a huge red arrow-pierced heart inked over his chest...
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (9 October 2011):
Just because he has her name tattooed on his arm doesn't mean that he still loves it. Obviously he loved her at one point in his life and he ws stupid enough to tattoo her name on his arm. He has to live with that decision now weather he is over her or not. Talk to him, tell him how upset it makes you to have to see his ex's name all the time wrote on him, maybe he can get another tattoo to cover up her name.
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