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writes:i've been best friends with a boy for 2 years, but the trouble is i've been in love with him since we first met, and he's had a girlfriend the whole time, and it's very serious. plus, they're both in a band together, and she considers me her friend. i don't know what to do, because i can't stop thinking about him, but I don't want to break up their strong relationship, even though i feel sad every time i think of them together. what should i do? please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): He's happy and she's happy and if you tried to get him all three of you would be unhappy.
Try to spend some time with other friends so that you think of him less, and try to meet someone new who is unattached and really wants you. That would be much better than someone who just wants to be mates. Then you can go out in a foursome and have the best of both worlds.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (11 December 2008):
 You continue to carry on this crush in your head and nowhere else. If it is a strong, serious relationship then you should not be interfering. You should be moving on and finding a single fella to think about. It will be hard, but the reality of the situation is that you just can't do anything about this crush right now.
Space yourself from them for awhile and find some new people (and new guys) to hang around while you settle your feelings down.
Good luck!
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