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writes:i love my fiance very much. il`s already one year that we are engaged. but from then we are facing loads of difficulty. i love him very very very much. but he does shows his love to me. his parents and family takes all the places in his life. he does not spare time for me. he takes me wrong all the time. from the bottom of his heart i know that he loves me very much. but he does not show it and make as if the world is more important than me.now he`l be outside town for 2 months. we`l be in contact only by phone and mailhow can i show him that i love him very much?how can i make him to stop taking me wrong?how can i make myself important for him?
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reader, saiyuri  +, writes (1 September 2007):
 gurl, taking from experince, it would end up worst if u dont let it go. i had the same problem and i tried and tried to keep in touch but it never works. one day i recived a phone call from Boston, Mass. it was him and he said we should let our relationship go... i asked him why? and he said, "i found someone new." long distance relationship wont work hun,.. later on i found out that he slept with 10 different girls n New York, Boston, and New jersy... my heart broked and i went into a a melt down. it's better to stay witha guy who is willing to give up on other stuff (not all stuff) and spend time with you whenever u want him to. 2 saiyuri
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reader, Escalaya +, writes (31 August 2007):
 Aye, I see where you're coming from. Me and my girlfriend had a similar problem.
I treasure my family, there's only 2 things in this world that are important to me, my loved ones, and my career (Musician)
The best way to convey your love is call him, every single chance you get, he might feel a little smothered, but it'll show that you want to talk to him. Don't talk about important things, like his parents. just.. talk to him like you did when you guys first met, joking around and having fun.
The way me and my girlfriend looked at our relationship was:
"we're basically just best friends who have sex." And we've been together for 6 years about.
The only way you can possibly get him to understand you, is by calmly, explaining in the best detail you can that he's misunderstanding you, and tell him how it really is. You can't *MAKE* yourself important to him. If you're important to him, than he'll make you feel that way.
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