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writes: i really need help.theres this guy that i met about 4 years ago,at the time he was my boyfriend's cousin(my ex now)and we clicked but none of us could act on what we felt coz it wasnt possible at the time,but about 2 years ago i left the country and there wasnt any contact because i didnt feel so much for him so he started movimg out with one of my friends that i introduced to him.about 6 months ago he started calling and expressing how much he loves me and at that time i was single and it felt like someone had just aroused these feelings i had for this guy but then after a while he said he couldnot do it(i mean be in love with me)right now he is so much in love with his girlfriend because he has told me that more than once but the thing is am back and i see him day and night and iam in love with this guy so much that he is the first thing i think about in the morning and the last thing at night.it hursts so bad because am the kind of person the loves hard.i know its practically impossible for him to leave his girlfriend for me.please give some advice coz i cant take it anymore.
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reader, latifa +, writes (14 February 2006):
latifa is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much for that advice because thats exactly what i was thinking about because at the end of the day am hurting myself while he is having fun with his girlfriend.so thank u so much
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (13 February 2006):
 Hello Latifa, what a dilema you have made for yourself, you are in love with a man you just cannot have, he is with a partner and they seem to love each other, you are in love with the idea of being in love with him, in reality you know it will not be.
You clicked once and it felt great but that was then and this is now, just accept this is not to be, maybe in time it will be different but for now just get over him and find new friends, he is not the only nice bloke in the world.
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