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writes: I have posted this elsewhere and I hope you do not think I am being rude or crude. I love my bf madly. I live at home. When he brings me home after a date and we are kissing, I do really do like him feeling my tits and putting his fingers in me but he has never tried to go all the way and I want that so bad. How can I get him to have me?
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reader, bridget +, writes (13 March 2006):
 Hey there anon..
Just some advice for your question..
You are not being rude or crude, these tye of situations happen.. and they do take time.. Maybe he was testing the waters by doing the foreplay.. I think that you should wait for the right moment that way it will happen when it was supposed to and not when you want it to, Relationships that happen in these situations usually turn out sour and you dont want that..
Get the two of you together with no one else there, preferably based on an over night basis, that way if things are supposed to happen, then they will do in their own time..
Sex isnt a choregraphed dance routine that needs to be finished, its more of a waiting game.. You wait for your time and place and person..
Hope this was of some help to you
Jacqueline
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reader, x_pixie_x +, writes (13 March 2006):
 He probly thinks that you don't want to have sex right now so show him that you do make him want to have sex with you, play dirty, seduce him, do something along those lines but don't just come out with have sex with me! good luck :p
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2006): just tell him or hint
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2006): How long have you been with this guy?
The thing is, he may be waiting for the right time and not want to take advantage of you, which is a GOOD thing!
Some guys only want one thing and will push girls into it.
When the time is right, and your both comfortable with it, you will know, promise
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (13 March 2006):
 If he isn't wanting to wait until he's married to have sex or anything, maybe he's just taking things slowly because he thinks that's what you want. You have to let him know that you want to make love to him. This is the 21st century, hun, we don't have to wait for them to make the first move anymore!!! We have a sex drive too and deserve it to be satisfied!!!
You don't have to say anything, that may ruin the moment, just go right ahead, let him in to your house or go somewhere you can get some privacy, and take control. Do stuff to him to get him in the mood and let him know this is what you want.
Hope this has helped and it all goes to plan!!!
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