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writes:HelloHere is the thing, I think I'm in love with my best friend, which is not good, one because I feel guilty for liking him when he trusts me and sees me as his bff. And because I'm pretty sure he doesn't feel the same, so I don't wanna get hurt, as a matter of fact I am already but anyways I need to forget about him now!but I don't know how to do it without stop being his friend!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 Just accept the situation that nothing can come out of this relationship. Go back to the same level as before and treat him like a best friend and nothing more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am tired of trying to get him, I think it would be better if I forget about him, healthier, but I don't know how to do it without being his friend!!
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reader, laetitia  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 You have to observe his body language and that should tell you if it is safe to make a move on him. You may try to hug him sometimes, rub his back, make him feel special. Make sure you look stunning when you go out with him! I am a bit of a coward when it comes to telling a guy my feelings...I prefer to show them through my actions and if he picks up on my signals, then we have a match. If not, then...I got nothing to lose. Don't get into the habit of listening and giving him advice for other girls he likes. That can only hurt you.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (24 May 2010):
Keep your distance from him and if he is interested in you, he will cross over to join you .
Keep your options open . If he see's your doors are opened and he does not want to enter, it means that he is not interested . Cast your nets in another directions.
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