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writes:i'm developing likeness for a guy "is right to tell him "i love you" as a female?
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reader, RawrrJoJoBabii  +, writes (9 July 2008):
 I suggest you wait. I've date many guys and i've come to find that you should wait until the guys says I love you first. This proves to you that maybe he's not just telling you I love you because you said it and he wouldn't want you to loose interest.
I've also found it helpful that you really think abou what those 3 words really mean before you say it. Some classify loving someone as loving them unconditionally and you'd do anything for them... ect. ect.
Make sure you don't exaggerate your words. Don't say i love you when you really mean I like you or I like you alot. There are huge diffrences and you will find those differences.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (9 July 2008):
 If you are just "developing likeness" right now, I'd wait a bit longer.
You didn't say if you are in a relationship or not. If you aren't, keep it to yourself.
If you are together as a couple, wait a bit longer until it's obvious that he has feelings too, and at that point, then it really doesn't matter who says it first. Just don't say it two weeks into a new relationship, or you will scare the poor guy off.
Timing is everything!
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reader, mima +, writes (9 July 2008):
 baby, life aint hard. we make it hard for ourselves. you tell him in a stylish way if yu are shy to come out. i know what you mean coz i''m from where you are but u know, some parts of the world don't see it as anything. i'm in your kind of situation. mine even said he liked me but i just could't be so cheap now i'm scared i'll loose him and looking for advice. dont be me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): Well of course its all right to say i love you first, weather your a female or male. Just make sure thats how you feel. I remember i have said ilove you once to a guy i was dating, and later i totally regeted it. So make sure thats the way you feel about his man, and im sure you will be fine.
Good Luck!
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