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*azed_confused
writes:I am from india. My boyfriend says 'We' cant be together and there is no future for us as his family will never agree. His mother is threatening Suicide if either of her boys marry outside their community.He loves me but cannot decide about us.What should i do? I dont want to lose him.We are great together and i have done all to be with him Reply to this Question
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reader, dazed_confused +, writes (19 September 2011):
dazed_confused is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot guys for your support. I have decided to move on rather than commit to a dysfunctional family.
Its better for me and for a while i will only think of myself.
Thanks for putting something in words which i wasnt able to accept otherwise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2011): That's a very serious threat. No matter how much a parent disagrees with a childs lover, using their own death as a tool is beyond horrible.
First of all, you can't blame this man for not being able to give you the committment you need. His mother might die because of it! No one should have to choose between the life of a parent and their future spouse.
As painful as this may sound, I truly think you need to break up with this man and move on. The situation is simply too dangerous.
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reader, todsucht  +, writes (18 September 2011):
 he should get his mother in counseling.
you guys could always elope.
love always hurts someone.
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