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writes:i have been seeing my boyfriend now for 18 months he has never been married and has no kids he is 48. i have been married twice now divorced with 2 children 5 and 15. I want to settle down with him as i love him very much but when i ask him if he loves me he says he thinks the world of me but cant say he loves me.He says he cant commit to me because he is unsure and does not think he could cope with the kids full time.I love him very much but wonder if i am waisting my time . should i try and move on?
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reader, harriett +, writes (25 March 2007):
harriett is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your advice. I just feel insecure and not sure that he will ever be able to commit to me.
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reader, livi +, writes (24 March 2007):
 hey there,
what makes love? always being there? treating you well? respect and trust? etc.. does he do all these things? if yes then i dont thin kyou are wasting your time. you can not pressure him in to saying those three little words, but perhapse he will eventually.
it is a lot to ask, so no wonder he is a bit hesitant on the answer.
let him know there is no rush, but you dont want to be messed around
good luck with it all : D
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