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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:HiI am currently in a 4 months relationship,havent been in one for about 5 years so i am kinda not too sure what way it should beI am mad about him and am really happy with him but when he goes out with his mates he doesnt text me which he normally would if he wasnt out drinking,when he,s broke i see him alot but then he gets paid he goes out,i cant go out as much as he can as i have a childI dont know if i am over-reacting i mean afterall it is not his child so why should he stay inSometime i just feel that he,s using me for when he cant afford to go outI,m being selfish and silly arent i ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007): You're not being selfish and silly.
I feel you have picked the wrong kind of guy to be a boyfriend to you. Clearly this guy is more interested in living a fun life with his friends. Not his fault, but perhaps you need to accept that this man is not yet ready for kids and a commited relationship. Someone in your situation, it seems, would do much better with a man who wants to spend more time with you and you children.
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