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female
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anonymous
writes: I have been with this guy for 2 1/2 years. We have been thru alot in our relationship. He has recently left for Job Corps and he so called started dating someone else. He told me that I been new it would be over but i cant seem to get him out of ny mind. I love him to deatg but im unsure if he feels the same. What should i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (4 August 2012):
I know you love him, but he is dating someone else and has moved on. You need to find a way to do the same. Get out of the house and attend some events in your area, go anywhere you can meet people. I know it is hard as I've had to do it, but you can't sit around and waste your life away thinking about him. Take some time to grieve and then make a conscious decision that you are going to be happy...then make decisions and do things that will help you achieve that goal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2012): Doesn't sound like he feels the same way.
If he did, he wouldn't leave you and especially not start dating another woman this soon afterwards.
Rather inconsiderate and insensitive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2012): Move on, he's being an ass. He's acting like he's some kind of an auction, like ebay. Bidding now will support this insane game of his.
Don't bid.
If you bid, you support this insane behaviour, and even if you win, this will happen again in no time. It's a lose.
If you forget about him, you might either find someone wothy, or have a chance of him comming back. It's a win/win.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 August 2012):
Let him go. Cut the contact 100% and find a way to move on.
If he is already dating someone else, why sit and waste your time and your love on this man?
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