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writes:I am in love with a guy i work with. He says that he will not date anyone he works with because of problems it has created for him in the past. after i expressed how i felt about him we became even closer friends.he'll call me around one in the morning just to talk about random things and we can stay on the phone for an hour or more just talking. sometimes not even talking a lot. i will go over to his house sometimes as late as twelve and bring beer over and we will just hang out, listen to music, watch tv, he will play his guitar, and we just talk. i usually end up crashing on his bed and stay the night. but we have never has sex or even kissed. he calls me one of his closes friends and we talk about everything. i told him once on my way out, while he was half asleep after a night of drinking, that i love him and he said i love you too and i gave him a kiss on the cheek and left. but nothing weird after. is there any chance of us ever being more?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): Guys are usually upfront about this sort of thing, so I don't think anything more will happen between you two. That sucks for you though, always being near him without getting what you want-a relationship. If you can handle just being friends, then keep hanging out with him. I think it's going to get to the point where you can't stand it anymore, and you're going to have to step away. Maybe it would be best to do it now before you get any closer, because the closer you get the more painful it will be when that time comes. It's up to you to decide what you can handle and if you still want to stick around. Good luck!
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reader, CLowell +, writes (17 December 2009):
CLowell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks so much for the advice, i appreciate it
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reader, bedazzled86  +, writes (15 December 2009):
This is a tricky one maybe he does just love you as a friend and just wants your friendship, if you hang around at his and nothing has happened it does sound like ( just friends) friends do share beds etc, until he says anything otherwise I wouldn't read too much into it or maybe you could test him by backing off a bit not going over there and see how he is with you he maybe a bit insecure right now and is genuinly not looking for a relationship, you just need to be careful in this situation you don't want to push it too much or you may loose him all together and your friendship good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): no
it never will
nothing ever happens
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