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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I am a 21 yr old young woman, I have been seeing this guy for more than four years and we had our ups and downs. I love him. I have tried to change myself and be with other men but I couldn't find the relief and the peace I feel when I am with him. I was afraid and still am, of this relationship, afraid of how it will end and he didn't say or do anything that would make me feel safe in the relationship, sometimes it doesn't seem like a real one, just two people having fun. But I really miss him when he is not around and I really feel good when I have him with me. He said he loves me but I need him to do more so I can stop freaking out and seeking for ways to escape. I'm so not insecure and I don't know who's fault is this ??
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (25 February 2011):
You need to talk to him about this sweetie. We don't know your full situation and the only way you'll get to the bottom of it is by discussing it with him.
All the best, i hope you can work things out :)
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