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writes: I am madly in love with my best friend. We used to go out at the start of 2006, and after 2 months going out she has been the last thing I think of before I sleep at night. We have stayed close friends and during the summer we did end up making out a lot and acting like a couple. But when december started she got a boyfriend. I was recently at her birthday party and he was there and everytime I saw them holding hands and hugging, I just felt so down. I lover her more than anything in the world and she doesnt know it, but I think she is in love with this guy. What should I do?
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (7 January 2007):
 I know whats it like to love someone that much, the butterflies racing round in your tummy, thinking about them 24/7. I think you are going to have to take a back seat on this one as she has a boyfriend at the moment, and untill they split up, if they split up, i would leave well alone.
It must have been torture seeing them holding hands and cuddling at her birthday party. Personally I don't think you should have gone to the party considering how strong your feelings are for this girl, and that her new boyfriend was going to be there also.
Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2007): Don't worry. i've been there. if you're good friends just talk to her about it friend to friend. Ask her they way she feel about him and why she does like him so much. keep mentioning thing that happened between you and her over the summer. Sometimes girls only get a boyfriend to see how people act. she could be testing you. if you think she is just stay cool. if it don't work out, don't worry. stay friends and be happy for her. keep letting her know you'll always be there for her. maybe that way if it don't go good with her boyfriend she'll realise that she loves you too. Good luck!
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reader, DocSilverback  +, writes (7 January 2007):
 You might want to just 'ask' her. Tell her how you feel. You have spent intimate time together, that should count for something. If you do not tell her how you feel now, her new relationship just might exculate. Do it now Man!
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