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I love her and intend on marrying her, but I keep thinking that we'll end up with different people!

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Question - (18 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2009)
A age 36-40, * writes:

Hi,

Am I being paranoid, my intuition or gut feeling...my girlfriend love each other a lot and intend to get married one day, but I had this image the other day that we will end up with different people. Our parents no about us and we have no problems. But those images are killing me and hurting me... my mind is trying to make that image into a gut feeling and also intuition because when I had that thought, I just had a weird feeling. Please help me, am I being paranoid and delusional?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009):

You're not being paranoid. It's completely normal to have these kind of feelings! You just want to make sure that you marry the right person, and you're not sure the person you're with right now is that person. If you continue to think like it's inevitably that you're going to break up, then you will inevitably break up! It's all about the attitude you have. If you start thinking positively about your relationship then these doubts will become less persitant.

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